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When
Friday, October 26th, 2018 9:00am
Location
Larchmont Temple
Address
75 Larchmont Ave.
Larchmont, NY 10538
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The family of Allen Falber will receive friends at their home at 115 Norman Road New Rochelle, NY 10804 on Friday 2:00 PM until 7:00 PM Saturday 12:00 PM until 4:00 PM and 6:00 PM until 9:00 PM Sunday 12:00 PM until 4:00 PM and 6:00 PM until 9:00 PM Monday 3:00 PM until 8:00 PM
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katie Buschke posted a condolence
Monday, October 18, 2021
Just came to know of his passing today. He was my all time favorite teacher. He was so kind. I had a huge crush on him as most of the girls did. I had a hard time at that age and he was so special. I remember him writing in my 4th grade grad signing book- :I will always remember you for your goodness and your poetry". Well I was always remember him for making me feel lovable. Condolences to to his family. <3 Katie Buschke
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Nifer Fasman posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 7, 2018
Mr. Falber was a wonderful educator and a kind human being. So sorry for your family’s loss.
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Chloe Malushaga lit a candle
Friday, November 2, 2018
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Mr. Falber was the greatest teacher and kindest human being I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. Entering the fifth grade as the socially awkward, chubby, weird ten year old, I had few friends and dreaded school. The first day of fifth grade I tried to run away from Chatsworth. I made it half-way home before my mother caught me and brought me back to the classroom, where Mr. Falber was waiting for me with a hug. After that day, I spent almost every lunchtime the first month of school in Mr. Falber's classroom, eating with him. I'll never forget how he made me feel I was special, and that I belonged. Upon graduating Chatsworth, I cried for days knowing I would not be able to see Mr. Falber every day. He was, in my mind, my best friend. After the first day of sixth grade I went back to Chatsworth to see him, as I did, many times that year. I remember how much I hated middle school, especially my math class. I couldn't understand long division no matter how hard I tried. So, naturally, Mr. Falber came to my house to teach me long division. And I've never forgotten it.
He always kept his promises. He promised me on the last day of fifth grade that he would come to my high school graduation. And he did. I couldn't have been happier to see him on that day.
That was the last time I saw Mr. Falber, though I have thought of him and the things he taught me often. My heart goes out to his family, an everyone who's heart he touched. Mr. Falber was truly incredible man, and he will be greatly missed.
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Harold and Rebecca Kaiser lit a candle
Tuesday, October 30, 2018
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We will forever miss Allen and the joy he brought to both of us in knowing him.
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Phyllis Doherty lit a candle
Tuesday, October 30, 2018
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A wonderful man, an extraordinary educator. Rest in peace.
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Kay Kobbe posted a condolence
Monday, October 29, 2018
A Tribute to Allen… Forest Church, former minister of All Souls Church in NYC, wrote before his own death, that “what is left when we die is the Love that we give away.” For Allen Falber, our dear friend and colleague, that is indeed the case. Allen gave his love away on a daily basis, to all ages of people and was a person who found happiness in bringing hearts together, giving non- judgmental attention to what might need tending. His acceptance of the human core in each of us and concern for individual well-being was an innate intention to witness and one to cherish. Allen was a natural teacher who always supported his “students” whether at home with his much loved family, with his sister Elaine and brother Cary, most certainly with his mother, Ros,while engaging with friends and strangers or at Chatsworth Avenue School in his classroom. He went the extra mile consistently offering his perceptions from a positive and optimistic view. He stayed. Allen had a gift of presenting a “Billy Crystal humor”, at times more than Crystal himself! His imitations and accents were infallible, direct and could be embarrassingly hysterical, as he isolated our very own characteristics and flawed behaviors into a type of lightness of being. He just made it “ok” to be Human. He played with words that we wished we had , and so often viewed us as earthly comics. We were in complete anticipation at staff gatherings ie: retirement parties when Allen stood up to MC whatever unfolded, and it always unfolded! Throughout time, I believe our group was perhaps closer due to his comical unifying role. He entertained. Personally speaking, Allen was part of our wedding, “uncle” to our child, appeared at out- of -state funerals, and was a gift to my mother who visited once a year. Allen never forgot to be present for her to evoke and stir up love from the memories of her heart. She loved him like a son, as do so many of “his people”. His reaching out made a difference in our lives. He gave. Allen spread his Light wherever he was. It was wide and encompassing without being judgmental. He stepped back to listen, reflected for moments, and then gave his understanding with intuitive, practical, thoughtful and sometimes humorous expression. Allen embraced life and cared about our position within it. He was a caretaker; devoted husband, son and father; a prideful new grandfather, and invested friend. His Memorial reflected his genuine Spirit, and was a gathering of past and present. I felt overwhelming sadness and love at its conclusion. Although we are all grieving at the loss of his physical presence, I see him now, running through the voices and spirits of his dear children and through us all; a teacher, a Giving Soul. Grateful.
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sharon stein posted a condolence
Monday, October 29, 2018
Reading through these messages, I am touched by how much Mr Falber meant to so many people, making each of us feel as individually special and respected as he was. Truly of all my teachers, THE teacher who stood out. I would often run into him at the train station during trips back home and it was always a treat. So sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing such a special person with all of us.
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Matt Futterman posted a condolence
Sunday, October 28, 2018
We spend so much of our lives questioning how we are spending our time, or feeling envious of some other group of people that seems to be getting more out of life. But I never felt that even for a moment on Mr. Falber's fourth grade class. You were exactly where you wanted to be. When he took a knee to speak with you eye-to-eye -- allowing you to feel on the same level as an adult -- you had the attention of the only person you needed. What I wouldn't give for one more morning of listening to him read Lizard Music or The Westin Game or Tuck Everlasting. We will miss you always.
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The Hugon Family posted a condolence
Saturday, October 27, 2018
Our family was so saddened to hear of Allen Falber's passing. Our son, Eric, was in Mr. Falber's fifth grade class and was lucky to have him as well as a tutor for several years. He was an exceptional teacher, and such a caring and thoughtful person who truly loved teaching children. He also loved his family as he often spoke of them. It was Eric's best year at Chatsworth because of Mr. Falber. He was the favorite for everyone. Condolences to his family. May he rest in peace. - The Hugon's - Michel Kelley and Eric
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Juliet FitzPatrick posted a condolence
Saturday, October 27, 2018
At chatsworth, mr.falber was the teacher that every student wanted. I was not lucky enough to have him, but the kind of affect he had on everyone in is path is an inspiration. He made every student at that school feel heard and seen at a time when we were beginning to struggle with who we were for the first time. Thank you Mr. Falber for everything!
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Josh Koral lit a candle
Friday, October 26, 2018
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Ferrick Family lit a candle
Friday, October 26, 2018
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Mr Falber taught both of our children at Chatsworth Ave School. They loved him, especially his great sense of humor making learning fun and he was a great inspiration to their academic successes. We are so sorry to here of his passing. A huge loss to his family and to the community! Rest In Peace.
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Anthony Hosey posted a condolence
Friday, October 26, 2018
Allen Falber is one of the reasons why I became a teacher. His warmth, kindness, humor and compassion were as real and as tangible as the books we read and the desks we sat in. The positive impact which these qualities had on the growth and development of his students cannot be underscored enough. Quite simply, Mr. Falber helped me to become conscious of the fact that I had worth as a student, and he encouraged me to take that worth and run with it as far as I could. I am deeply saddened to learn of his passing. He was a wonderful man, a wonderful teacher, and I'm lucky and grateful to have experienced that wonder first hand.
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Alona Dadiani posted a condolence
Friday, October 26, 2018
I was terribly saddened to hear of Allen's passing. He was quite simply one of the greatest and truest teachers I've known, and a significant, comforting guide to me personally as I was adjusting not only to a new country, but to learning English in my first full year at Chatsworth. Fortunately, I had the privilege of being one of Mr Falber's fifth grade students. Allen undoubtedly had and continued to impart an indelible spirit of learning and caring that extended well outside the classroom. I'm grateful I got to run into him a few years ago when my own mom fell ill and I was in the midst of relocating her to where I now live. It was so great to talk with him for those minutes and I'll cherish them as exemplary ones of how much regard and caring he gave me, even then. My deepest condolences to his family and all who were truly touched by Allen.
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Sara Neier posted a condolence
Friday, October 26, 2018
Mr. Falber was one of the most influential figures of both my early education and childhood. His fame reached well beyond the Chatsworth 5th grade hallway as the teacher that could be anyone's best friend and be the most excited patron of any Hard Rock Cafe in the Philadelphia metro area. Mr.Falber was not only my teacher but also my friend. Mr. Falber tutored this bad math student for 4 years and turned me into the person in a friend group that calculates the tip, not an easy feat. I am indebted to Mr.Falber not only for my limited math skills but also my first mock trial case and forays into the field of social studies. Most of all I am indebted to him for the confidence he instilled in me and many other students to be bold in the classroom and answer questions rather than being shy and fearing being wrong. Without his years of tutoring and teaching I don't believe I could have found the same path to success in high school and college, both in theatre and politics, and my eventual path towards a legal career without his passion for teaching all students. Every former Chatsworth fifth grader including me was very lucky to know Mr Falber.
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Josh E lit a candle
Thursday, October 25, 2018
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A great man, who was loved by many and will be missed by many!
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Billy Kirkpatrick posted a condolence
Thursday, October 25, 2018
Mr. Falber was a beloved teacher at Chatsworth Ave School. He was so instrumental in shaping so many young minds and lives. The students at Chatsworth were so blessed and fortunate to be educated and mentored by such a great person. Rest in peace Mr. Falber.
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Emily Cappo posted a condolence
Thursday, October 25, 2018
We were so thrilled that our son Daniel had Mr. Falber as his 5th grade teacher. They truly enjoyed each other's sense of humor and Daniel would frequently report back to us about "something funny" that Mr. Falber said in school that day. He made learning fun for all the kids and his warm smile was a constant reminder to his students that they could feel safe and confident to express their ideas without judgment. Mr. Falber was a very special teacher and person. Our whole family is sending our deepest sympathy to Mr. Falber's family. May he rest in peace.
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Michele Adessa posted a condolence
Thursday, October 25, 2018
As someone who worked with Allen for many years, I witnessed his gift of teaching. His calm demeanor and sense of humor was unlike any other; as he not only taught the whole class, but each individual student. Allen was a true teacher. Everyone he touched will carry his lessons with them for life. I am immensely blessed that Allen called me his friend. I cannot express in words the void I feel in my heart, and will truly miss his presence.
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Steven Birenbaum posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 24, 2018
Allen was the favorite teacher of so many of us who attended Chatsworth School, although there were so many wonderful teachers. A few years ago my parents delivered many old Chatsworth notebooks to me that had been languishing in my room. Paging through them, I was struck by how sports obsessed most of the enteries were - no surprise - but more importantly I newly appreciated Allens gently sardonic comments. He had high standards but taught us to take ourselves too seriously. And for boys, he provided a model of how to be a sensitive, caring man. Thank you for everything Allen. - Steven
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Diana Regan posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 24, 2018
What a privilege to have been a Chatsworth family with 2 children taught by Allen Falber. His gifts to his students are too numerous to count and his lessons continue to be the most valuable. His smile and fun spirit will shine on in so many who spent time in his classroom. He was simply the most gifted educator. Sending my deepest sympathies to Allen’s family.
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Erin Constabile posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 24, 2018
Allen Falber was a major influence on why I became a teacher. Like others, he was always looking for ways to teach us life lessons in caring, thoughtful ways. When I was in 4th grade, Allen decided that we would put on a full scale performance of Fiddler on the Roof. I had terrible stage fright and anxiety at the time so I didn't audition for any part, assuming that would mean I would work backstage. In his typical low-key, easy going way, he explained to me that I was going to play the Fiddler. I remember being terrified but confident that he would support me through the process and I would be okay. It was a wonderful show and a major turning point in my life. I am so glad that so many of my friends and classmates were able to celebrate him on his retirement six and a half years ago.
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Liz Liscio posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 24, 2018
Dear Falber family I was so saddened to hear that this world lost such a truly remarkable person. Allen was more than the greatest teacher my daughter Chloe ever had, as well as a tutor who mentored my son Alex and contributed to the man he turned out to be. He was a warm, caring, true human being. May the knowledge that he affected so many young lives comfort you today and always. Liz
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Billy Cohen posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 24, 2018
Mr. F was a warm, wonderful, funny man. I felt lucky to be in his class, special to have him for a teacher. It is a true testament to what a lovely person, a true mensch he was that so many of us not only remember him fondly, but still feel connected to him. We are still in his class. I don't think you ever give up something special like that. So, 43 years later, he is still a part of who I am, a very good part. Mr. F thank you. We love you, and we will always remember you!
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Ben Roberts posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 24, 2018
Allen remains one of the greatest teachers I’ve ever had. He used humor, honesty, and passion to engage us in learning. Allen quite literally taught me what “empathy” is, in a lesson regarding Native American displacement. I’ll never forget that lesson, nor the way he made me laugh during every class. I’m so sorry for his and his family’s suffering, and I wish I got to give him a hug goodbye.
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Steven Birenbaum posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 24, 2018
Allen was the favorite teacher of so many of us who attended Chatsworth School, although there were so many wonderful teachers! A few years ago my parents delivered several old Chatsworth notebooks to me that had been languishing in my room. Paging through them, I was struck by how sports obsessed most of the enteries were - no surprise. But more importantly, I newly appreciated Allen’s gently sardonic comments to the stories. Just a little wink and nudge to show he had read them but could still poke fun. He had high standards but taught us not to take ourselves too seriously. And for boys, he offered a model of how to be a sensitive, caring man. Thank you for everything Allen. - Steven
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Victor Odouard posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 24, 2018
Few teachers have been as influential in the course of my life as Mr. Falber was. I remember one of the projects we worked on was a court case where the class split up into three groups: defense, prosecution, and justices. He asked each of us, “which team do you want to be on?” And I asked to be on the defense team because that’s the side that I agreed with. Mr. Falber then proceeded to make me head lawyer for the prosecution in his classic tongue in cheek fashion. I remember this was a huge challenge, but in the end I can’t understate its importance—it taught me to dig deep and try to empathize with the other side, something I still try to do today. Mr Falber, in this simple act, taught me a life lesson that will always serve me well. And I am only one of the hundreds of students that passed through his classes over the years—i can only imagine the imprint he has had on all of us collectively. Rest easy, Mr. Falber. I’ll miss your lively exclamations of “holy kadoodlehoppers”
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The Monzidelis Family, Nancy, Gus, Billy, Dino and Nicollette posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 24, 2018
Our sincerest condolences to Barbara, Emily and Matt. Alan was a great teacher to my kids. Alan was the first person I met when I enrolled my first child Billy into Chatsworth, helping me find my way to the Principal's office, he was so very kind. Alan then became Billy and Dino's teacher and Nicollette's best friend's fun father. The kids loved Alan, who always wore that contagious smile. Alan so adored you Barbara, and was Alan was so very proud of Matt and Emily, his pride and joy. Alan Rest in Peace, you will always be fondly remembered by the Monzidelis family.
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John J. Fox Funeral Home, Inc. lit a candle
Tuesday, October 23, 2018
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The Segal family posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 23, 2018
Our deepest condolences to Allen's family on his passing. Allen was a wonderful and kind teacher to our two daughters, Sydney and Jamie. I have fond memories of going on the 5th grade Philadelphia trip as a parent chaperone, and spending time with Allen that day. He worked so hard to make that trip special for all the kids! Allen projected warmth and happiness, starting with that terrific smile. May he rest in peace.
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Penny, Nick Christina and Pier Langone posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 23, 2018
We, as a family, benefited greatly having known “ Mr Falber” He was a wonderfully creative teacher who knew how to have fun but give structure at the same time. I will never forget the girls explaining “plop planting “to me . They were so serious I had to hold the laughter in. Allen was also a friend and support to the parents of his students. Nick and fell so very blessed to have had him in our lives. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. Penny langone
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The Birenbaum Family posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 23, 2018
Mr. Falber was THE BEST teacher. He made a lasting difference in the lives of our two sons and their friends at Chatsworth School. We were so lucky to encounter such a caring person.